"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option" - Anon.
I have been staring at this quote for over an hour. I knew it applied to me when I got pissed off at it.
I have confused this as the right way to be for years thinking that if I was just good enough that would change. Once the bdsm aspect enterd our lives this seemed to be the way it was viewed but it never felt right.
I don't think that I should be an option - I think I should be a priority.
Some days it just feels like I am the only one with that opinion so I forget.